Distance stuff man, sounds wild and not even cool. How do you find trust in some crazy cat you have never met before, and how do you know such stuff is legit?
I used to think the same as you but..Think about this a moment.
Other's trust us to perform Reiki at a distance without knowing them at all or they knowing us, oftentimes they just post on a board. They do not know for sure if someone is performing Reiki or the Black arts but they trust. Anyone from anywhere could venture to a board or join a group with ill intent and send whatever they so desire. There's not much preventing it but faith and trust.
Why is it so different than for an attunement? If distance attunements are so bad then surely distance healing opens up the same opportunity for negative actions of others.
Furthermore, even in a Hands on live classroom there's no way to know until it happens if the person doing your attunement is for real. Even with documentation it's easy to falsify. There's a story about something like that happening in Diane Stiens book where a Reiki cursed her and her home. I'll have to locate it.
Distance Attunements were discovered many years ago when a need propigated them, it is just becoming more common than not. I do find that many folks, (and no disrespect to any one who has not had the fortune of a live class as there are sometimes reasons why one cannot) do only the distance and never do experience what a real class has to offer. I do suggest that if you can at least take a level I class, usually they are the least expensive and you meet a good group of folks to network with as well. The attunements feel far more powerful because you can feel the energies in the room and from the Master. Of course this may be different for each person.
What it boils down to is trust, refferals and trust and more trust.
As to the subject. I find that if someone's mind and heart is open to Reiki the Reiki feels strong even when I do know them or don't. If their hearts and mind have apprehension or slight closure to it then it is not as strong. If they are totally closed to Reiki when they say they aren't it bounces right back to me in some form or another.
Love and light
Barbie