after doing some research regarding violet flame reiki, lavender flame reiki...and i found a site that offers free violet flame reiki attunement only. the person who does the attunements has so many modalities......and i thought i would put my name down for a violet flame attunement. upon recieving his email, i felt excited and mentally scheduled to meditate later and accept it. only on going back to his site, i saw his residence is actually in west java, indonesia. i know a fw indonesian people, ... married to one.... and found they are very much into magical arts and some negative things also. now im quite concerned about what type of energy has been sent and if i can avoid recieving it. i still would like to have the attunement, although my fear of the kind of intent .... as paranoid as i sound .... i kind of dont know. is there a way of saying no....? and then yes later to someone else? that sounds so judgemental i know. any advice?